Context

Surrender can be a conscious decision or an unconscious one. I fought the good fight long after the war was lost. Eventually I raised the white flag.

I’m selling the house,” I’m told. “Please don’t … at least for now.” If only for the sake of the girls … Read the rest

Completely

Sylvia Plath is shorthand for talented, emotionally fragile and ultimately doomed artists. I’ve found her name generally illicits blank stares or occasionally a snicker. While sticking one’s head in an unlit gas oven isn’t the most romantic of deaths, give her credit for creatively departing this mean old world – … Read the rest

Timeless

“Words are a pretext. It is the inner bond that draws one person to another, not words.”
― Rumi

Words of wisdom with a decidedly modern ring to them despite being written almost a thousand years ago.

I know his observation about the bonds between people are as true today … Read the rest

it never gets easier

“I know that’s what people say– you’ll get over it. I’d say it, too. But I know it’s not true. Oh, youll be happy again, never fear. But you won’t forget. Every time you fall in love it will be because something in the woman reminds you of her.”

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Kiss

It’s been a long, long time since I’ve kissed anyone (besides my daughters).  I remember the day. I even remember the hour and the circumstances. And there have been many times when I tell myself it’s not important. It’s just my lips touching someone else’s. No big deal.

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Truth #1

When you start to know someone, all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with beauty. You can lust
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Asexual

I’m a sophomore in college and a girl named Dana spends the night in my room.  No sex, just making out, perhaps a little mild groping. Still, it’s the closest thing to a one-night stand I’ve ever experienced. My roommate acts like I’ve just lost my virginity though and promptly … Read the rest